"We began this morning with a passage by the preacher and theologian Howard Thurman in which Thurman alludes to how difficult it is for us to be vulnerable, to allow ourselves to be seen when we are overwhelmed, or damaged, outsmarted or paralyzed, or simply in physical or emotional pain so great it diminishes our ability to think. One of our defensive mechanisms to being in that position of diminishment is to deny that we are. To make light of our pain, to make light of our confusion, to make light of not knowing what to do. We deny these things because they point to our human vulnerability. When we acknowledge them, we seem weak to ourselves, unable to meet the responsibilities of personhood and our responsibilities to those for whom we care. We would rather give to God, and probably even to those closest to us, a less than complete version of ourselves than to include within the picture the part of us that stands quivering and unknowing, pained and panic stricken."